How to enjoy single life?

Ways to Enjoy Single Life

Story of single guys as they narrate:

I set the cowboy song ghost riders in the sky as my alarm clock, and I jumped up from my bed in full vigor every morning.

While listening to the podcast, while making breakfast, if it is not toast and milk, then simply go downstairs to eat a bowl of noodles, by the way, say early to the old man who lives in the opposite door of the morning exercise. I took out the shirts and coats that had been ironed last night from the closet, and put them on one by one.

 

When working, I am serious, meticulous, and meticulous to complete every task that has been explained carefully. Seeing the red tick on the worklist, I will feel a little satisfaction in my heart.

 

By the way, for many years, I have maintained the habit of running eight kilometers at night every night. I dare not say that it is rain or shine, but I really enjoy the feeling of talking to myself. In your life, there is one thing you have always.

The trivial things of persistence can be regarded as one of the extraordinary pleasures. When running, I went into a state of meditation and airiness with my heart and soul, borrowing from the recent NIKE advertisement: "You will understand when you run."

 

There is an old plane tree in the yard downstairs. When it’s sunny, and maybe a little salty sea breeze is blowing, I will sit under the tree and do nothing. I often think, if I were to live In the trunk of a dead tree, I can do nothing but look up at the flowing clouds in the sky. 

Day after day, I will gradually get used to it. I will wait for the birds to fly up and the clouds to gather and scatter. uncertain.

 

Actually, why do we have to emphasize the word single?  

"Not impetuous is to eat, to sleep.

You should read books, take a bath.

Talk about things when chatting, and accompany friends when you are with friends.

Everything has its place, concentrate on doing everything at this moment.

 

Instead of thinking about other people’s shark fin and sea cucumber when eating, thinking about invoice reimbursement when sleeping, thinking about how to show off when reading, thinking about wedding parties when taking a bath, always wanting to talk about money when talking, and always thinking about money when with friends. 

Swipe the social accounts' Moments-the so-called impetuous, that is, all the time, hoping to gain the most sense of existence, superiority and self-identification in the shortest time.

 

Great philosophers used to talk about ideals, not fancy, but simple, dreaming of the emperor, the minister, the father and the son. The reason is very simple, but current affairs are chaotic, that is, the ruler is not the ruler, the minister is not the father, the father is not the son, and everything is labelled, distorted, and symbolized. It is no longer what it is, and it is impetuous. "

 

When we are the masters of our lives, being single is not single, is it really that important? 

Buffett has a passage that I took out and shared with you: People goes to my age, you will understand: the people you want to love they love you, the people you care about they care about you, that's successful life. 

He said, this Yes, you will definitely have the opportunity to get a car and a house in your life, but there is only one time in your life. What kind of life do you choose to live without regret? To be worth it.

 

Love is beautiful, and there are too many good memories that are hard to erase. The love you used to think you will stick to your life has become a cloud of smoke. Maybe you will never interact with that person.

 

For the sake of love, you gave up many of your hobbies, gave up too much of your own time, invested a lot of capital for her, slowly, you are already living a life that belongs to two people, all your plans and arrangements are Set a priority for her.

 

Gradually, you are no longer the one who can make yourself more perfect. Your life is getting better and better. With popular entertainment, your compulsion has already stopped improving.

 

Come back, return to yourself, do what you can only do when you are young. Self-sufficient economy, add more French shirts and custom suits to your wardrobe. The lens you want to add, buy the car you want to buy, and there is no longer a budget for a long-distance trip for the other party to buy her Prada bag.

 

Slowly, you find that being single makes you more beautiful. You finally become who you want. You have tasted fine wine all over the world, you have tasted eight or nine out of ten of all the single malts in the world, and talked and laughed with the senior. 

You become the man with a bow in the trunk. You have become a man with a six-pack abs, a mermaid line and an inverted triangle. You have no shortage of women and small recipients. This is all because you are still single.

 

It's only a sigh, when each of you is alone in the suites of Peninsula, St. Regis, Sheraton, and Banyan Tree to enjoy the night view outside the window, there is no one by your bed.

 

I don't know if people will stop pursuing perfection. It may end if you are single and tired. 

Love will end when you are tired, but why not let yourself become more perfect first?

Be the man you want to marry, you are not perfect.

50% cute girl + 40% girl + 10% female nerve

Girl, live yourself like the man you want to find most. I was serious.

Now many young men, women and young women are running to complain to me, their conditions are superior, that superior, what kind of car to drive, what else to do.

Why can't I find someone. But, brother is puzzled, since your conditions are so superior, why are you anxious to get a partner? Take a look at these online "fighting small three", "how to get along with male (girl) friends", "my boyfriend cheating", "my girlfriend gave me a cuckold"... posts abound, and there are many sad quotes. 

What does the proliferation of collections show? 

Engaging with objects is a sad thing. Being single is the primary productive force. 

There are so many good things about being single. I will give a simple example as follows:

1. When engaging in an object, I want to eat something

 The two people often have different tastes and disagreements, or they may fight, which seriously affects appetite. I believe we have all encountered this kind of dialogue in life.

Male: "What do you want to eat" Female: "Whatever"

Male: "Hot pot?" Female: "Get on fire" Male: "Sichuan cuisine" Female: "Too spicy" Male: "Sushi?" Female: "Fear of stomach trouble"...

Man: "Then what do you say to eat?"

Female: "Whatever"

This kind of endless conversation is a waste of life. Single people don't have this trouble. If you want to be high-end, you can wear a suit, tie a tie, and jelly. Go to a western restaurant to have a French meal. 

If you want to be simple, you can go to the barbecue restaurant downstairs and order 2 large green sticks, a few bunches of big waists, and just click. Made, carefree and dripping. 

When you are a partner, if you want to go out and eat something, your girlfriend is not uncomfortable, but she doesn't want to go out without washing her hair, she has to talk and persuade, and finally agree to it. If you want to go out and put on makeup, she will be hungry It's a baby.

2. Single can stay young forever

 Several of my brother’s male colleagues, when single, some went to the gym after work, with small dumbbells squeezed in one fell swoop, and practiced a small tendon; some like to play billiards, with small shots shrinking, comparable to Hende Li; some friends go to the football field to practice ball protection, Bengbu slalom and so on. 

Others like to go to Di, have a glass of Corona, then shake their heads and shake their heads. As a result, after engaging the subject, you have to go home to accompany the subject after get off work. He doesn't exercise anymore, doesn't kick the ball, and he can't shake his head. 

Every day, except for tossing with the subject in bed at night, there is basically no exercise, and the little belly comes out slowly, entering the ranks of middle-aged men prematurely. The same goes for women. 

Presidential Couple

When you’re single, you wear a small hip skirt, a small high heel, a small bag, a small waist and a straight twist, you can click everywhere, and you’re old and strong. As a result, it took a long time to engage with the subject, the makeup was gone, and the clothes were not chosen. Every day, I wondered how to cook food for my boyfriend. Like the aunt in the cafeteria, my charm plummeted.

3. When you are single, you can go out if you want to

If you want to make an appointment, you can make an appointment. Men want to go to the bar and take a taxi. You can play at any time. Women want to go shopping without looking at their faces and buying everything. Row. Reading two literary novels, I want to go on a walk-and-go trip.

If two people are together, most of the things are horrible, and there is no income from resignation. Isn't the subject worried? 

But it’s different when you’re single. When you resign, you can go to Europe once you have the money. If you don’t have money, you can go to Southeast Asia. You can eat and sleep all the way, walk all the way, enjoy different scenery and different cultures. 

4. Desire is the driving force of human progress

People who have no desire are just a mess of mud. When you were single, you saw a 7-minute white Fumei on the street with a fat-headed, pig-headed and dog-faced three fat guys. 

Naturally, you would feel resentful in your heart: "MB's, it's so hard to make a dog day." What's the difference? Isn't it just a little money? 

Then, you will focus on how to make money, and your work will be more motivated. But when you get it right, you will feel more and more that other people's girlfriends are so pretty? 

Gradually, I confessed my fate. This is basically the case for my life. I gradually lost my motivation to fight. I had a passing day and went home early after work. 

Women too, look at the handsome guys all over the street, and think about the pig-headed dog-faced man at home who only knows that he slept, don't you feel desperate?

5. Single, financial freedom

For example, when the iPhone 6 came out, you could only buy one for yourself, but now that you have an oil bottle, are you embarrassed not to buy it for the other party? 

After a touch, the budget is not enough, I can only buy an iPhone6, first give it to my girlfriend, and then pick up the 5s that my girlfriend has eliminated. The same is true for women, whose wages are not high, and with the good bags and shoes bought by men, it is inevitable to be criticized. 

"Tsk tsk, this woman is very rich", but if you are single, buying famous brands on your own will immediately make you feel like a strong woman, capable, and everyone has to look at you. Just rely on a man. He buys things for you today, but he won’t buy them for you tomorrow. 

The day after tomorrow, he will buy for others. What should I do? A strong gap was formed instantly, and it was hit hard. Single, earn money on your own, spend what you want to spend, carefree.

6. If you are single, you don't need to suffer from other people's gossip, or subject to surveillance

To get a partner, you have to be cautious when you talk to the opposite sex. If you make a "momada" on the Internet, you have to delete it afterwards, so as not to cause misunderstandings. 

When you go shopping with the opposite sex, you also worry about being seen by relatives and friends. It’s different when you’re single, you can be ambiguous with A, B, C, D, J, Q, K at the same time, chat, drink, date...whatever you want. No one accuses you, monitors you.

Single dogs complain that they are boring and boring all by themselves, so finding someone is fun. Brother hehe smiled, this kind of person is basically not suitable for falling in love, how good when he is alone, no one interferes with what he does. 

Read a book to add some posture. Ride a bicycle to exercise your body; travel and increase your horizons. There are too many facts that you can be single. You feel bored by yourself. 

What happiness can you bring to your partner? People who like self-pity, it is better to be single, otherwise the negative energy of mixing, finding a partner will only make both of them uncomfortable.

Good food is not afraid to wait. When you are single, you will improve yourself. Naturally, the road will be wider and wider, and the objects you can choose will become more and more high-end. The benefits of devoting energy to career are obvious. For example, Jack Ma, who has a significant negative score level, is there for such a big industry. 

Can we not hire little girls? Many people are wondering: "Where are all the good men/women? Why can't I reach them?" 

That's because your level determines that you can't meet any high-tech, high-tech may be Did you encounter it in an Internet cafe? 

Is it possible to shake it? Maybe you two met on Weibo? It’s impossible. When you fly to New York today and Tokyo tomorrow, when you’re talking and laughing with Fortune 500 CEOs, people who are worthy of you will appear. Otherwise, you’ll be in an Internet cafe every day. Invite the washing, cutting and blowing brother and factory sister. So, to sum up, being single is a very precious experience. A single day is happy, and a single day is one day less. You must cherish every single day you live single.

Since you are single, you must give full play to the advantages of being single, single out style, and single out taste, otherwise you can't resist seeing couples and friends circle bombing in turns.

First of all, I finally won't pit my teammates for a phone call from my girlfriend. Have you been as a qualified single dog, even if you can’t play games well, you’re embarrassed to be single!

 

Second, do couples need money to go to the coffee shop? Do I need money for a candlelight dinner? Do I need money to learn advanced education in small hotels? Do I need money for my honeymoon? 

As a qualified single dog, you are a rich and second generation compared with them. 

Is it appropriate to eat worse than those couples? Is the poorly worn fit? Food, clothing, housing and transportation are not one or two levels higher than those of young couples. Are you ashamed to say that you are single?

 

Third, the most important thing is time. We have to use the time they use to be pretentious to do things that are not pretentious.